When My Cup is Empty

By |2017-03-20T10:55:23-05:00July 18th, 2016|Rambles|

Recently, I’ve been feeling pretty shitty. I’m sure part of it is the Anghenfil, that damned anxiety dragon that likes to point out all my failures. But part of it is the reality of the situation. I’m two years in, I’ve published 7 full-length books, and they’re not really selling […]

The Top Ten Things I Hate About My Body…

By |2017-03-07T16:22:15-06:00June 8th, 2015|Self-Love|

…would be a really easy blog post to write today.

In case you missed it, I took an afternoon with one of my favorite photographers, Ashley Victoria, and did a lovely spread all over Pensacola Beach. I was nervous about the photos, mostly because from the few that I […]

Selling Houses and Dating Boys Part Deux

By |2017-03-07T16:07:17-06:00April 18th, 2015|Life and Love|

This week, I threw it back to a post on selling houses and dating boys. In it, I wrote about how I felt that “I don’t get perfect,” in either real estate transactions or in dating gentlemen callers.

At the time I wrote that post, I was actually seeing […]

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TBT Update – Staying the Course

By |2017-03-07T16:09:27-06:00April 9th, 2015|Rambles|

For today’s TBT, I highlighted a blog I wrote back in August that talked about staying the course and keeping to my intention. I threw out a bunch of ideas an expectations and now I’m just laughing about how little (and much) I knew. It’s so comforting to […]

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The Problem with Conviction

By |2017-03-07T16:04:11-06:00March 19th, 2015|Razia, Writing Woes|

I’ve been having some trouble writing Conviction, the third Razia book.

Now, nobody panic. It’s not like I’m giving up or anything like that. But I wanted to be blog a little about the frustration with this damned book, more so I maybe can find a nugget of wisdom to keep […]

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Working for Myself

By |2017-03-06T11:07:25-06:00February 23rd, 2015|Publishing Schtuff|

Ever since starting Sun’s Golden Ray Publishing, I’ve had a blast working for myself. One of the things I’ve been told almost my entire career is that I am efficient. I work very hard and very quickly, and usually complete the work of three people in half the time. When […]

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Selling Houses and Dating Boys

By |2017-03-06T11:16:18-06:00February 14th, 2015|Life and Love|

As I navigate the perils of real estate, I began to see the similarities between selling houses and dating boys (or girls). I put my Virginia house on the market and it sold 24 hours later. I got a full-price offer, they needed no help on closing costs. The best […]

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By |2017-03-06T10:59:17-06:00February 9th, 2015|Life and Love|

Disclaimer: I wrote this blog post 3 months ago. The specifics may or may not be totally accurate at this point ref. number of dates and the state of my house. But it’s still a good blog post and an important one for me.


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On Babies and Boys

By |2017-03-07T15:45:24-06:00November 2nd, 2014|Life and Love|

At my age, all of my girlfriends have babies and boys. (That is, they’re all married and pregnant)

Five years ago, I thought at 28, I’d be married to my ex and preggo with my first kid. I was so sure that’s what I wanted, because it was what everyone else […]

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My Fear of Running

By |2017-03-06T12:22:30-06:00September 28th, 2014|Self-Love|

I admit it: I have a fear of running.

This is an odd statement to say, considering I’ve run 5 half marathons, 2 full marathons, and countless 5ks and 10ks and 10 milers.

But running causes me severe anxiety.

It probably started when I was in 4th grade, when I ran down the hill […]

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